Text: Matthew 22:1-14; Luke 14:15-24
Title:  “Jesus’ Parable of the Wedding Dinner on Earth”
Thesis: That the Kingdom of Heaven is like…a wedding

 Intro.: The Bible says, “And he saith unto me, ‘Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb’…” (Rev. 19:9) 
           
Our text today is a parable. The word “parable” has a couple not-so- different meanings. 1) “A placing of one thing by the side of another, as of ships in battle”; 2)  metaphorically, “a narrative, fictitious but agreeable to the laws and usages of human life, by which either the duties of men or the things of God, particularly the nature and history of God’s kingdom are figuratively portrayed”; or 3) the easiest to remember, “an earthly story with a heavenly meaning.”
           
This parable, as well as others, was directed at the religious leaders of the Nation of Israel, but present and listening were Jesus’ disciples.
           
We might ask “Why” did Jesus speak in parables to the legal representatives of Israel?  Jesus answers that question in Matt. 13:13-15,
“Therefore speak I to them in parables: because they seeing see not; and hearing they hear not, neither do they understand. And in them is fulfilled the prophecy of Esaias, which saith, ‘By hearing ye shall hear, and shall not understand; and seeing ye shall see, and shall not perceive’: For this people’s heart is waxed gross, and their ears are dull of hearing, and their eyes they have closed; lest at any time they should see with their eyes, and hear with their ears, and should understand with their heart, and should be converted, and I should heal them”
           
Their hearts were hot toward keeping the smallest requirements of the Law, but cold toward the Messiah who came to fulfill that very Law.
The Bible says,
“And he saith unto me, ‘Write, Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage supper of the Lamb’…
           
The marriage has two phases; 1) the heavenly phase when Christ’s churches are united to Christ in marriage; 2) the earthly phase when the Nation of Israel’s takes its place at the earthly wedding dinner. This dinner, which is represented in the Gospels, as the kingdom of Heaven/God, is the 1000 yr. reign of Christ on this earth (millennial kingdom). Tonight, we will consider the earthly wedding dinner, so this parable is going to give us insight into the Nation of Israel’s present dilemma, and future kingdom.

Text: Matthew 22:1-14 -- “Jesus’ Parable of the Wedding Dinner on Earth” – prayer

I. JESUS REVELATION OF THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN (v2)
           
A. The kingdom which has its source in Heaven, i.e., the millennial (1,000 yr) kingdom of Christ

 Note: The greater context is all-important to understanding the parables.
1)
From Matt. 1:1 to Acts 21:16 (“disciple”)/19:4 (the baptism of John) is a transition period between the O.T. and the epistles/letters of the N.T.; 
2)
the 4 Gospels are inherently Jewish, presenting Jesus as the promised  Jewish Messiah. The book of Acts is the continued establishing of Christ’s churches;

3)
the original 11 disciples (not Judas), were saved in the O.T. way by placing their faith in the promise of God for a Deliverer (grace).
James 2:23 says,  “And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, ‘Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness’: and he was called the Friend of God.”
When that promised Deliverer arrived on the scene these saved O.T. saints had to recognize Jesus as that Messiah, which they did, but they did not recognize Him as their Saviour until after His resurrection;

4) The original disciples were not permanently indwelt by the Holy Spirit until Pentecost;
5) so the subject of the Gospels is the anticipated kingdom of Heaven/kingdom of God which is the earthly reign of Christ on this earth;
6) the expectation of the Messiah & His kingdom were rampant, in the chosen nation, during Christ’s earthly ministry.
           
Let’s confirm this in the Word of God (read, Acts. 3:18-26)

                   1. This parable is the 2nd call of God to the Nation of Israel “to come,” which is completed in Acts 3 (see the 1st in Matt. 10:5-15).

 II. JESUS’ PARABLE OF THE MARRIAGE (v2-14)
           
A. The Participants (v2ff)
                       
1. A certain King, i.e., God the Father (2)
                       
2. The certain King’s son, i.e., Jesus the Christ (v2)
                       
3. The certain King’s servants, i.e., the godly remnant of Israel (v3ff)
                       
4. Those bidden (“call/invite”) who would not come, i.e., the ungodly majority of Israel (v3ff)
                       
5. Those gathered who would come, i.e., the bad & good (v10)
                       
6. The man without the wedding garment, i.e., an example of those expecting to, but not prepared to enter the millennial kingdom (v11-14) (see Matt. 25:32)

 III. THE OCCASION (v2)
           
A. The Marriage of the King’s Son
                       
1. Israel is referred to as Jehovah’s wife by Jehovah
Jer. 3:14 in part, “Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I Am married unto you:…”
                                   
a. So we know that Israel is not the Bride of Christ
                                   
b. So we know that Israel will be the guests at the wedding dinner
                       
2. There is no mention of who the bride is

 IV. GOD’S PREPARATION FOR THE MARRIGE (v4)
           
A. Everything was provided by God
                       
1. The dinner was provided by God (“My dinner”)

                        2
. The food was prepared by God (My oxen/fatlings)
This reminds us of Ps. 23:5, “Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies…”
                       
3. The circumstances were made ready by God

Note: This is a reference to the O.T. prophecies of the suffering Servant & His finished work on the Cross. All was made ready by God to receive the Nation of Israel into the Kingdom of Heaven.

V. GOD’S INVITATION TO ISRAEL TO ATTEND (v3ff)
           
A. God Sent Forth His Servants

 Note: This is not a new call. God’s servants included the O.T. prophets. The expected kingdom of Heaven is a recurring theme in the O.T.

                         1. To call them (Nation of Israel) (v3)
                                   
a. That were bidden (an action completed in the past) to the wedding
                                   
b. They would not come
                                               
1) See why in Malachi
                       
2. To bid them (v4)
                                   
a. They made light of it (“were careless”)
                                   
b. They went their ways (read the O.T.)
                                               
1) One to his farm
                                               
2) One to his store
                                   
c. Those left [without an occupation] took the servants (v6)
                                               
1) Entreated them spitefully (1 word) (“to treat shamefully”)
                                               
2) Slew (“killed”) them (see how the prophets were treated)

 VI. GOD’S RESPONSE TO ISRAEL’S REJECTION (v7-8)
           
A. When the King heard, He was Wroth (“provoked to anger”)
                       
1. Sent forth His armies (in the O.T. God often used the Gentile nations around Israel to punish Israel)
 
                       2. Destroyed the murderers (in the O.T. God often employed capital punishment on evil doers)
                       
3. Burned up their city (in the O.T. God often used destruction to punish wickedness)
                                   
a. This prefigures the destruction of Jerusalem in A.D. 70

            B. Those Bidden Were not Worthy (not fit)
                       
1. Though everything is ready & all are invited, there comes a time when the door is shut (Noah’s ark, the 5 virgins, Matt. 25:10)

VII.  GOD’S INVITATION TO THOSE NOT INVITED  (v9-10)
           
A. God’s Instructions to the Servants (v9)
                       
1. Go ye therefore (because the called with not worthy)
                       
2. Go into the highways (“entrances into the city”)
                                   
a. The trade routes
                       
3. Go to as many as ye shall find
                       
4. Bid (“invite,” a new invitation) to the marriage

 Note: Christ’s death has come, so the door is opened wide to “whosoever will may come” Rev. 22:17.  Jews & Gentiles alike.

Jesus told His church, “And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, ‘All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.  Go[ing] ye therefore, and teach[ing] (“make disciples”) all nations, baptizing them in the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I Am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen”  (Matt. 28:18-20)

             B. The Servants Obedience (v10)
                       
1. They went where they were told
                       
2. They did what they were told to do
                       
3. Both bad (“full of labours, annoyances, hardships”) and good (“pleasant, agreeable”). Jews & Gentiles
Jesus said, “Come unto Me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest”  (Matt. 11:28)
                       
4. The wedding was furnished (“filled”) with guests (“those that sit at meat together”)

 XIII. GOD’S INSPECTION OF EACH GUEST (v11-12)
           
A. When the King Came in (before the wedding feast began)
                       
1. To see (“view attentively”) the guests (God notes all)
                       
2. He saw a man (God sees men individually)
                                   
a. The man was not discovered till the King Himself saw him.
The Bible says, “Judge not, that ye be not judged” (Matt. 7:1)

 Note: This man never had the wedding garment, the robe of righteousness, but he talked his way into the midst of the wedding guests (Wheat & tares, Matt. 13:29-30; judgment of the Gentiles, Matt. 25:31-46)
                       
3. Inappropriately “dressed” for the occasion (a robe of righteousness)

Note: At wedding feasts in ancient times there was a certain garment peculiar to the occasion provided by the King and those who came without it were considered intruders.

             B. When the King Questioned the Man (v12)
                       
1. Friend (“a kindly address”)
                                   
a. This could be a Jew or Gentile
                                   
b. Jesus uses this term 11 times in the Gospels
                       
2. How came thou in?  (a personal address)
                       
3. Not having a wedding garment? (a searching address)
                                   
a. Totally unprepared

             C. When the Man Faced the King (v12)
                       
1. He was speechless (“to close the mouth”)
                                   
a. As all men/women will be at the judgments

IX. GOD PRONOUNCES JUDGMENT (v13)
            
A. Authorizes the Servants (13a)
                       
1. To bind (“fasten with chains”) him hand and foot (just as Christ was bound to the Cross)
                       
2. To take him away (“carry him off”)
                       
3. To cast into outer darkness (Hell)
                                   
a. In outer darkness there shall be

                                   
            1) Weeping (“lamentation”)
                                               
2) Gnashing of teeth (“used to denote extreme anguish and utter despair of men consigned to eternal punishment in hell”)

 X. GOD’S CONCLUDING STATEMENT OF FACT (v14)
           
A. Many (“a large group”) [O.T. Jews] are Called (“invited to the dinner”)
                       
1. But few (“a limited number”) [O.T. Jews] are chosen (“picked out by God”)
                                   
a. In the context, these are O.T. Jews chosen to attend the marriage supper.

 Concl.: The marriage of Christ is under the authority, direction and mandate of God. We live in an age where men tell God what He may or may not do, but God remains sovereign and demanding in the exactness of how men approach Him. Though all men/women are invited to the wedding, few there be that accept the invitation. And so it is the responsibility of the members of Christ’s churches to press home the gospel message, remembering that it is God who gives the increase.
           
I wonder, do you carrying tracts to hand out or leave in places humans congregate?  Do you add tracts to your outgoing mail?  Do you speak a word for the Lord as the occasion arises?  Do you support Marion Baptist church’s world-wide missions program?
           
God has given us grace to appear & time to prepare. Have you?  





 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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