Text: Philemon 8-17
Title:  “Being in Christ Changes all Things”
hesis: In Christ makes all things possible
Reading: Rms. 8:1-9

Intro.: The Bible says, But of God are ye in Christ Jesus, Who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption” (1 Cor. 1:30)
    
The first 7 verses of Philemon set the tone for the rest of the book.  The central message is that being in Christ makes all things possible, including the reconciliation between a run-away slave and a well-to-do master.
    
The story of slavery in the Roman Empire at the time of the New Testament is a complicated one. It has been asked why the early churches didn't denounce slavery, but the characteristics of slavery were not universal enough to allow for such a simple, sweeping response.
    
Slavery in New Testament times had shades of early American chattel slavery, modern carnal trafficking, Old Testament debt bondage, and even apprenticeships and internships. Some slaves were kidnapped, and other slaves owned slaves of their own. Some worked at hard labor their whole lives while others became business partners with their owners. There was no set pattern to oppose.

The Bible says,
But of God are ye in Christ Jesus, Who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption”          We do not know the individual circumstances between Onesimus and Philemon. On one hand, and according to Paul, Philemon’s household was dedicated to the Lord Jesus Christ   . Certainly, any slaves, of whatever position, would have been treated fairly and kindly. On the other hand, Onesimus may have wanted his freedom to pursue his own interests, and, perhaps, travel-lust. Certainly his trip to Rome was a long and dangerous journey.  So we are brought face to face with two conflicting personalities, expectations and circumstances. How this will play out is revealed in the remainder of this book. Paul is the mediator, but Christ brings about the actual solution to this problem.
The Bible says,
But of God are ye in Christ Jesus, Who of God is made unto us wisdom, and righteousness, and sanctification, and redemption”

Text: Philemon 8-17 -- “Being in Christ Changes all Things” -- prayer

I. THE RESULTS OF BEING IN CHRIST (from Philemon) (v6, 8)

Note: Being in Christ is the Great Equalizer. No one is better than anyone else; all are children of one heavenly Father. We may have differing roles in God’s economy, but those roles do not mean that we are superior or inferior to another.

8 results of being in Christ from our text:
    
A. First, We Acknowledge that every Good (“godly”) Thing in Us is Because, and Only Because, We are in Christ (v6)            1. This, then, makes the sharing of our faith effective

      B. Second, this Acknowledgment Gives Us Boldness in Christ (v8)
           
1. Bold = “free and fearless confidence, cheerful courage, boldness, assurance”
           
2. To enjoin (“command”) others to do their “duty” (that which is convenient).
                
a. Paul’s role was as an apostle
Phil. 4:13 says, “I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.”
                
b. The question is not “Can you,” but “Will you?”

     C. Third, In Christ This Boldness is Restrained by Love (v9a)
           
1. Agape = “sacrificial love” (doing what is best for another person without expectation of a return)
           
2. To beseech instead of command (spiritual discernment)
               
a. Beseech = “to call to one’s side,” “exhorting and comforting and encouraging”
Paul gave this advice in 2 Cor. 12:6  “For though I would desire to glory (“make myself known”), I shall not be a fool; for I will say the truth: but now I forbear (“abstain”), lest any man should think of me above that which he seeth me to be, or that he heareth of me.”

      D. Fourth, In Christ This Love Comes of Experience & Maturity (v9b,c)
           
1. The experience of age (“old man,” perhaps 60 yrs.) or
           
2. The experience of surrender (maturity, any age)
               
a. Here, again, is the defining position of the mature Christian; A prisoner of Jesus Christ (v1)

Note: Before salvation, but under the convicting power of the Holy Spirit, you are a disciple (“a learner, follower”).  At salvation you become a saint (not your choice). As you grow and mature you become a servant (God’s leading, your decision). As you reach full maturity (Bible calls it “perfection”) (God’s desire, your decision), you become a prisoner (“one bound, a captive”) of Christ. This is the result of your becoming a living sacrifice;
“I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God”
(Rom. 12:1-2).

      E. Fifth,  In Christ This Maturity Makes Us Bold to Beseech (v10)
         
1. To intercede for another
             
a. Paul’s son, Onesimus (“profitable, useful”) in the faith of Jesus Christ
             
b. Whom I have begotten (“converted”) (personal responsibility)
                 
1) In Paul’s bonds (“bound in chains”) (despite the circumstances, i.e., a prisoner of Rome & of Christ)
                 
2) Paul, in bonds to Christ & Rome, brought Onesimus to Christ, who was bound in sin.

      F. Sixth, In Christ This Boldness Does Not Deny Reality (v11)
         
1. The past
              
a. Onesimus was to Philemon unprofitable (“useless”)
         
2. The present
             
a. But now profitable (“useful”)
                 
1) To Philemon in particular

Note: Philemon has only known Onesimus as useless, but Philemon knows the change that trusting Christ can make in a person. (v1, 5)

                  2) To Paul
                     
a) Who Paul would have retained (“held back”) (v13)
                     
b) Who took Philemon’s place
                     
c) Who would have kept on ministering (“serving”) to Paul
                      
d)  Despite Paul’s bonds in the gospel (“good news”)
                           
(1) So Paul was bound to Christ, bound by Rome & now bound in the Gospel. Be bound by the totality of the Word of God!

     G. Seventh, In Christ Reality Does Not Change Right & Wrong (v12)
           
1. Paul sent Onesimus back to Philemon (1,311 miles)
           
2. Paul beseeched Philemon to receive Onesimus
           
3. Paul beseeched Philemon to receive Onesimus as if Philemon was receiving Paul’s own bowels (“the seat of tender affections”)

     H. Eighth, In Christ the Ultimate Response is the Responsibility of the Injured Party (v14)
           
1. Paul leaves the decision to Philemon’s mind (“approval”; “that which should be done”)

           
2.
Paul interjects that this will be to Philemon’s benefit (“advantage”)
           
3. The benefit to Philemon of Onesimus will not come of necessity (Paul’s “imposition”), but of Philemon’s [“voluntary”] willingness
                
a. Force may work for the short term, but not for the long term

      I. Ninth,  In Christ Circumstances are to be Accepted as God’s Will (v15)
         
1.
Perhaps (man’s questioning nature)
             
a. Onesimus departed for a season (“a definite time”)
                 
1) Notice Paul does not say, “Ran away”!
             
b. Perhaps Onesimus’ departure was for a higher reason
                 
1) That Onesimus would come to Christ
                 
2) That Philemon would receive Onesimus for ever (“without end”) because he came to Christ & was profitable

      J. Tenth, In Christ Relationships are Elevated (v16)
           
1. Not now as a servant (which Onesimus was)
           
2. But now above a servant
           
3. But now a beloved brother
               
a. Especially to Paul (firsthand experience)
           
4. But more to Philemon (no experience, but the word of a trusted brother-in-Christ)
               
a. Both (at the same time)
                   
1) In the flesh (a servant)
                    2) In the Lord (a brother in Christ)

Note: Paul said, “In the flesh I am a prisoner of Rome, but in the Lord I am a prisoner of Christ, and in the spirit I am a prisoner of the Gospel.”

       K. Eleventh, In Christ, Brothers in Christ are Partners in Service to Christ (v17)
           
1. “Since” Philemon counted (“to hold as”) Paul a partner (“a companion’ in ministry) (v1)
           
2. Receive Onesimus as myself

Note: Paul is saying, “Do not receive Onesimus as you knew him, but receive him as you know me. We are spiritually one and the same.

Concl.: What a difference Christ makes in the lives of men. I trust that you have experienced this difference.
  
Christ made Paul bold to speak to a brother in love. Christ made Philemon willing to listen to a brother in love. And Christ made a new-born baby in Christ, not only willing to serve his spiritual benefactor, but to return to his master.
  
Perhaps the most profound knowledge gained from being in Christ is that “…without Me ye can do nothing (an absolute negative) (Jn. 15:5).
    
Without living out your life in Christ, you will lack boldness, love, restraint, maturity, discernment, wisdom (reality), full understanding of right & wrong, how to deal with others, how to accept God’s will, how to elevate others instead of yourself, and how to partner with others in your service for Christ.
    
Being “in Christ” is a work of God, but living “in Christ” is a matter of your determination.  Are you determined today?

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